I'm So Sorry
Once in a while I come across someone with a lot of leadership potential but they are hesitant to grow because they were previously "hurt" by another leader who offered to help them grow in their leadership abilities but failed to give them the time and support they needed to reach their potential.
When dealing with a situation like this, you need to acknowledge the past hurt and take the time to process it with them. Assure them that your words will remain in confidence and it is not your intent to "bad-mouth" anyone but to recognize their pain and understand how hard it must be to trust someone again.
As you build trust and friendship with this person learn the power of saying, "I'm so sorry," for the things that you had nothing to do with. The essence of Calvary was that Jesus took a rap He didn't deserve and He said, "I'm sorry" for something He didn't have to say "sorry" for. I think, as Christian leaders, one of the most powerful things all of us can do is at different points in our life, look at people in the Body of Christ who have been wounded, whether fairly or unfairly by other people in the Body, especially people in leadership and say, "I'm so sorry," on behalf of people that will probably never say it or maybe not even realize that they needed to say it. Hearing those words make it real to people.
Once in a while I come across someone with a lot of leadership potential but they are hesitant to grow because they were previously "hurt" by another leader who offered to help them grow in their leadership abilities but failed to give them the time and support they needed to reach their potential.
When dealing with a situation like this, you need to acknowledge the past hurt and take the time to process it with them. Assure them that your words will remain in confidence and it is not your intent to "bad-mouth" anyone but to recognize their pain and understand how hard it must be to trust someone again.
As you build trust and friendship with this person learn the power of saying, "I'm so sorry," for the things that you had nothing to do with. The essence of Calvary was that Jesus took a rap He didn't deserve and He said, "I'm sorry" for something He didn't have to say "sorry" for. I think, as Christian leaders, one of the most powerful things all of us can do is at different points in our life, look at people in the Body of Christ who have been wounded, whether fairly or unfairly by other people in the Body, especially people in leadership and say, "I'm so sorry," on behalf of people that will probably never say it or maybe not even realize that they needed to say it. Hearing those words make it real to people.
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The size and strength of our volunteer leadership team plays such a pivotal role in determining the success of our ministry. Experience tells us that our youth ministry will never grow larger than our leadership base can handle. For it is imperative that we are able to care for the students the Lord entrusts to us.
So, grab a cup of coffee and join me as we tackle perhaps the number one challenge in all of youth ministry, "Effective Recruitment Of Volunteer Leaders."
Lovingly,
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In this Youth Leader's Coach, "Key Hurdles In Growing Your Leadership Team," I unpack the six key hurdles you need to face if you want to multiply your leadership team. You'll smile during some sections of my honest mentoring dialogue and maybe even "ouch" during some of the others. Whatever the case, this Youth Leader's Coach will speak to a youth ministry topic we all deal with on a regular basis. And just for the record, if no one has quit your leadership team in the last couple of months, you're doing better than most.
Lovingly yours,
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In this month's Youth Leader's Coach, "16 Reasons Why Good Volunteers Quit," I'm sharing from my more than 40 years of experience 16 of the most common reasons I've found why good leaders quit and how we can tackle them effectively.
Lovingly,
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As leaders, many times we communicate, "We're not into quantity; we're into quality." Often, that's a cop-out. Winning youth ministry leadership teams PLAY TO WIN. Don't you want to be a part of a CHAMPION leadership team?
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Lovingly,
