5 Ways To Plant An Eternal Signature
Years ago I attended the funeral of Pastor Wendell Smith, the founder of City Church in Seattle and Pastor Judah Smith's father. It was such a great picture of someone who had really made their life count for something. In that moment, I was very much aware of my own mortality. What did I really want my life to stand for? For me, the big deal is that I leave a legacy that truly honors Jesus. So, here are some of the thoughts that I wrote down that day that I wanted to share with you on how to plant an eternal signature.
- PURPOSE: "To have a life mission."
When you know where you're going, you know the roads that won't take you there. That's really what a life mission does. It helps steer us in the right direction. Truth is, until you know who you are, you're probably trying to be someone else. That's why I am a woman on a mission to be "Jesus with skin on" to a few people around me.
- PASSION: "A desire strong enough to shape your daily choices."
I think we almost beat the passion out of ourselves by competing with kingdom champions and thinking we'll never be like them. We compare our youth ministry budgets, number count, and speaking abilities. Then we disqualify ourselves and begin to think that what we're doing really isn't making a difference. When you compare yourselves to others, the Enemy will immobilize you. But I don't think God is looking so much for champions as He is contenders. So don't worry about what everyone else is doing. The best way to live your life is to spend it on something that will outlive you.
- TRUSTWORTHINESS: "Other people learn they can have confidence in you."
Trust is developed with TESTS and TIME. Effectiveness in life and in relationships is more of a slow cooking oven than it is microwave. So live with enough consistent character that people know that you can be trusted over the long-haul. If you change direction too much, the people who follow you will get whiplash.
- INTEGRITY: "Time and tests prove integrity."
Without integrity, you become a BOSS, but not a LEADER. Ask yourself a simple but convicting question, "Is there a sense in your life that your actions and words are the same?" In order words, "Are you making your words whole with your actions?" It's easy to lack integrity in certain areas of our lives, so my prayer is, "Lord, free me of all the disconnected parts."
- DARING: "No success comes from playing it safe."
It's not what you do that makes your work sacred, but why you do it. I love telling you that I've failed because it also tells you that I've tried. I think fear of failure leads to inaction. Get used to failure so that it doesn't immobilize you. Take some faith risks. That's my simple challenge. I say to myself often, ships look great in the harbor but that's not their purpose lived out. When you take that risk and plant that small seed, remind yourself that God already sees the forest!
Thank you for being one of those amazing people that wants to spend their life for something that will ripple into eternity and for living your life in a way that makes Jesus smile.
Happy planting!
Years ago I attended the funeral of Pastor Wendell Smith, the founder of City Church in Seattle and Pastor Judah Smith's father. It was such a great picture of someone who had really made their life count for something. In that moment, I was very much aware of my own mortality. What did I really want my life to stand for? For me, the big deal is that I leave a legacy that truly honors Jesus. So, here are some of the thoughts that I wrote down that day that I wanted to share with you on how to plant an eternal signature.
- PURPOSE: "To have a life mission."
When you know where you're going, you know the roads that won't take you there. That's really what a life mission does. It helps steer us in the right direction. Truth is, until you know who you are, you're probably trying to be someone else. That's why I am a woman on a mission to be "Jesus with skin on" to a few people around me.
- PASSION: "A desire strong enough to shape your daily choices."
I think we almost beat the passion out of ourselves by competing with kingdom champions and thinking we'll never be like them. We compare our youth ministry budgets, number count, and speaking abilities. Then we disqualify ourselves and begin to think that what we're doing really isn't making a difference. When you compare yourselves to others, the Enemy will immobilize you. But I don't think God is looking so much for champions as He is contenders. So don't worry about what everyone else is doing. The best way to live your life is to spend it on something that will outlive you.
- TRUSTWORTHINESS: "Other people learn they can have confidence in you."
Trust is developed with TESTS and TIME. Effectiveness in life and in relationships is more of a slow cooking oven than it is microwave. So live with enough consistent character that people know that you can be trusted over the long-haul. If you change direction too much, the people who follow you will get whiplash.
- INTEGRITY: "Time and tests prove integrity."
Without integrity, you become a BOSS, but not a LEADER. Ask yourself a simple but convicting question, "Is there a sense in your life that your actions and words are the same?" In order words, "Are you making your words whole with your actions?" It's easy to lack integrity in certain areas of our lives, so my prayer is, "Lord, free me of all the disconnected parts."
- DARING: "No success comes from playing it safe."
It's not what you do that makes your work sacred, but why you do it. I love telling you that I've failed because it also tells you that I've tried. I think fear of failure leads to inaction. Get used to failure so that it doesn't immobilize you. Take some faith risks. That's my simple challenge. I say to myself often, ships look great in the harbor but that's not their purpose lived out. When you take that risk and plant that small seed, remind yourself that God already sees the forest!
Thank you for being one of those amazing people that wants to spend their life for something that will ripple into eternity and for living your life in a way that makes Jesus smile.
Happy planting!
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Lovingly,
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